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Its always nice to have you’re creative genius confirmed by a established governing body. Just when i was getting used to being stepped on by the man. I sold Networks and Award committees, now its time for my next challenge; Social Freakuency.

 

A lot of negative things have been said about this former ‘Keys to the VIP’ contender. All of which i think is completely unfair. Yes, Justin is a publicity seeking ‘gloryhound’… so is EVERYONE else on that live brothel we call “The Bachelorette”. At least Justin has enough courage to come out and admit it. Anybody looking for a LEGITIMATE shot at love on live TV for the nation to see needs to see a therapist.

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2010/05/video-new-bachelorette-guy-was-already-reality-dating-show

For footage of Rated R Rego’s performance on ‘Keys to the VIP’ checkout;

http://starcasm.net/archives/47108

 

 

Hey guys,

This book is full of valuable and controversial information. Take what you need from it, but definitely dont ignore it. Its a Jungle out there, so dont let people trick you into believing that they are “Civil”. To the Victor goes the spoils and Robert Greene will help you establish the winning mindframe with this one.

 

 

What-up peeps. Long time no post, sorry about that. Anyways, I recently had the pleasure of speaking with Montreals Frank Kermit. Perfect timing because i’m coming close to completing the theology around “Social Freakuency” and i want to start creating some buzz .

Nonetheless, Frank is a Relationship Expert that is quickly growing in popularity in the community. He teaches men and women about their Emotional Needs, how to address each other’s Emotional Needs, and how to address each other’s Emotional Needs to ongoing loving relationships. His teaching and philosophies are about relationship building, maintenance and living traditional relationships and alternative lifestyles.

Frank B. Kermit is the author of many books and audio products, produces and hosts an internet radio show, runs an online relationship advice forum, and runs Frank Talks: Frank Advice columns in magazines and websitesr. He is also available for personalized coaching over the telephone, one on one, couples coaching, group coaching, and bedroom coaching.

Frank has recently branched out into interviewing other leaders in the industry and in early April i joined his  elite list of interviewees. Check out the link below and enjoy. 

http://www.franktalks.com/?content=franktalks_radio

 

 

 

Hey Fellas,

I did a couple of radio interviews with hosts that were actually interested in questioning me on issues directly related to game. I really enjoyed these interviews because these hosts began to realize that i actually took this business seriously and i wasn’t just some talking head hired by a network to regurgitate canned lines and other bullshit. Take a listen on the links bellow.

The 1st Interview HERE: CJOB FM Interview with Peachez

The 2nd Interview HERE: DAVE FM Interview with Peachez

PS> Fast forward through the commercials or you’ll wanna commit suicide.

Women are NOT attracted to WEAK men and this not in reference to physical ability.

Here are a few examples of how we guys act HUMDRUM pathetically giving away their power and chance of success with women.

1) Calling Her Way Too Often

If you like someone, you may think it’s a good idea to let them know as often as possible. Wrong.

Calling someone all the time usually denotes a level of insecurity and neediness.

This is the perfect way to scare off a chick before you
even get with her.

2) Offer To Take Her Somewhere “Nice”

What do most guys offer up when they meet a Hot Chick?

After boring her to death with inane conversation about their jobs, past educational experiences and how their family behaved last weekend. They finally work up enough courage to ask her to go to a really “nice” place. Reverse roles for a second and imagine being in this situation with a girl that’s not that attractive. Doesn’t it sound like she’s trying to bribe you with food? Hot Chicks don’t react well to bribery.

When asking a girl out, make it seem like you were going to that venue with her or without her. You almost want to make it seem like it may even be an inconvenience to bring her along. Take this approach and guess who doesn’t appear so needy all of a sudden.

3) Do “Thoughtful” Things From The Beginning

If you come into the situation on your knees, you appear just like every other predictable loser who has ever
tried to make himself look better by giving gifts
food, or favors in exchange for attention and
approval. She is NOT Cleopatra!

4) Tell Her How You “Feel” About Her Early On

I think every man was born with a trigger in our mouths that prompts us to spew vitriol that lessens are chances with a chick once we start developing feelings for her.

The “Emotional Confessor” trigger is activated by strong feelings of attraction and emotion towards a woman that we can’t believe is giving us the time of day

After surveying a bevy of attractive women I realized that they all have one similar experience to
share… men just seem to love telling hot women how they feel within the first couple of dates. Nerdy and loser behaviour.

5) Continuing to Tell Her How You Feel When She Needs Space

Scenario:

You’ve meet a chick you really dig.

You do all the things necessary to decrease attraction and you prove to her that you have no clue when it comes to women.

So she decides to pull away and distance herself from you. And what do most guys do? They continue to tell her how they feel.

The thought that most guys have is, “If she
only understood how I really felt about her, then she would finally fall in love with me.”

Men, stop having emotional responses to situations.  It fucks up our thinking process and makes us do all the wrong things.

Stop Sabotaging yourself.

Men, when your out there this crazy world laden with ulterior social motives, try to refrain from being too much of a push-over when interacting with people.  Having a strong frame and unshakable confidence should be habitual,  even if you may be wrong.  ‘Being strong in the wrong’ will definitely earn you more points with people and more specifically women.  Don’t be a ‘flip-flopper’, its not congruent with the behavior of an Alpha Male.  If changes need to be made, make them in private and don’t always give others the benefit of seeing you conflicted.  If anything, acknowledge there point and promise them that you will devote sometime to thinking it over.  This is the essence of being a man and not a pussy. I would of respected Kanye West more if he stuck to his psychotic position and decided to boycott award shows altogether due to his perceived injustices in voting.  Instead, he did the opposite, he chose to quiver and sulk like a toddler while apologizing for his irrational stupidity on NATIONAL TV during a Leno interview.  Bad form Kanye, bad form.

WingStreet’s Ultimate Wingman Playbook

Take one for the team, so your buddy can live the dream

In celebration of the launch of WingStreet — an award winning line-up of authentic, intensely flavoured chicken wings — Pizza Hut is honouring the Art of the Wing.

Working together with skilled pick-up artists and hosts of The Comedy Network’s hilarious reality series Keys to the VIP, Pizza Hut developed this WingStreet Wingman Playbook to help Canadian wingmen from far and wide improve their game. Read on to learn about tried and true tips and techniques for successfully carrying out a wingman mission.

Foolproof plays

· Slay the Dragon (so your buddy can get to the princess!) — if the girl your pal is hitting on has friends that aren’t being attended to, it could jeopardize the mission. The best wingmen are prepared to “slay the dragon”; entertaining and distracting her friends while he makes his move (this play is also known as “falling on the grenade”).

Bonus tip: this is also a great opportunity to sell your buddy to her friends by explaining what a cool and sweet guy he is.

· The truck — part way through the mission, take a moment to make this statement: “I’d step in front of a truck for this guy”. Be as serious as possible. By demonstrating the high esteem you hold your friend in, no one else in the group will think otherwise.

· Wingman signals — pre-establish subtle signals over beer and wings before you head out. Eye contact, hand signals and body language that will indicate your position to your bro

(for example: a quick role of the eyes can mean divert mission).

You’ll have your turn – tonight is all about helping out your bro

· Big up your buddy — bring up endearing qualities and stories about your buddy in a way that it sounds like you’re making fun of him, but is actually endearing in her eyes. Talk about things like him being close with his family, or spending time with his grandmother. These things will melt her heart, and his bashfulness (if played right) will be the buffalo wing to your blue cheese dip.

· Don’t steal the show — one of the worst things you can do while winging a buddy is compete with him. Under no circumstances should you try to hijack the conversation or get all the attention. Put away any jealousy or animosity you may feel. You’ll get your turn, don’t be greedy.

Bonus tip: if you suddenly feel that you’re the center of attention, start acting obnoxious so her attention is directed back to your buddy.

· Have no shame — possibly the number one feature a great wingman must possess is the lack of a particular social quality — shame. You must not fear humiliation while playing the role of the wingman. Don’t be afraid to play the fool and temporarily damage your own reputation in order for him to close the deal.

WingStreet’s Ultimate Wingman Top Ten Tips

Wingman Prep

· Look good – shower! — if you look bad, you’ll both look bad. Put some effort into it. Shower, make sure your hair and clothing look good.

· Be prepared (carry a wingman toolkit) — a good wingman always comes prepared with pens, paper, protection, napkins and gum or breath mints

Bonus tip: subtly let your buddy know if his breath stinks by offering gum to the group

No matter what, do not…:

· Don’t be a downer — leave your personal problems at home when out winging it. Women can smell bad vibes from across the room. Smile and talk to someone. It’s important to always look like you’re having a good time.

· Don’t settle for any wingman, choose a friend — Kind of like how a talented basketball team won’t win games if it has bad chemistry, choosing a wingman that you have nothing in common with for the sole purpose of picking-up will gravely affect your interactions.

Fact: the women you pick up can tell whether or not you and your wingman really like each other, and will trust you based on your ability to commit to a friendship.

The secret weapon

· The WingWOMAN — this may surprise some people, but the greatest wingman is actually a wingwoman. A wingwoman makes other women feel more comfortable with you because she provides proof that you are not a creep. The wingwoman also helps create the jealousy angle that women love. Women don’t want a man that no other woman wants.

And never forget to thank your Wingman!

· Return the favour — winging is a two-way street. No one should have to play wingman all the time. In order for a wingman relationship to work flawlessly, time spent as wingman and lead-guy must be divided up evenly (unless of course, you have a girlfriend).

· Treat them to wings and beer — visit WingStreet.ca to order up a round of wings and prove your appreciation to your wingman.

· Enter him to win the WingStreet Ultimate Wingman Competition!!! — what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Enter your wingman for a chance to win an ultimate winging adventure that no one has to know about!

WingStreet’s Ultimate Wingman Top Ten Tips

WingStreet at Pizza Hut

Officially launching September 21, 2009 in 220 Pizza Hut restaurants across Canada.

Available in a variety of mouth-watering flavours, from Buffalo Burnin’ Hot to Garlic Parmesan, WingStreet wings are already an international success, winning both Best Traditional Hot Sauce and Best Traditional Medium Sauce at the National Buffalo Wing Festival.

You can enjoy WingStreet wings three ways: traditional, bone-in or bone-out. Find out which your Wingman prefers and treat him (or her!) today.

WWW.WINGSTREET.CA

1. Wander Away From The Herd

Check out the host’s magazine collection or head to the bathroom by yourself. Or even go to the bar and grab a Drink. When you’re surrounded by other people, he’s not going to come over and get rejected in front of an audience.

2. Let His Pick-Up Line Work!

Most guys are not good at this, so he’s most likely going to say something ridiculous – just smile and guide him into a more natural conversation.

3. Reveal Your Single Status

When I’m chatting up a prospect, I’m always waiting for the moment when she chooses to mention a possible significant other. Place all your cards on the table and casually mention your independence.

4. If He Needs To Mingle, Ask Him To Say Bye Before He Leaves The Party…

Sometimes its impossible to talk to the same person the whole night. So it’s imperative that you end your conversation on a good note. That’s why its kinda cool when the prospect takes the bull by the horns and indicates that there will be a follow-up to the original encounter.

The movement to educate men in how they approach women has been met with mixed reviews.  From men, positive and grateful.  From women, a negative adversity. Why? Because they feel that their being manipulated by us.  This is the furthest thing from the truth in my estimation.  Nonetheless, women have decided to become proactive in educating themselves in spotting guys who are less than sincere. Here’s a list of some of the things they’re considering when getting picked-up.  Be aware!

5 Quick Tips for Spotting a Player!

1.”Who was that guy? Oh my God, did he just give me “The Look?” He approached with zero hesitation? How the fuck did he make ME feel self-concious?” Hold on a second! Is he a player?

2. Research him. Even the smoothest players have a rep. Which is why most of you who date them already know the score deep down. You’re either in denial or think that you’re going to change him. You’re not!

3. Review his ‘Non’- approach. A real player won’t come on to you in a direct way. Instead he’ll chat up your friend and wait for you to make a move. Why? He wants you to feel like you are choosing him. Beware, he’s counting on your being competitive.

4. Actions Speak Louder than Words. A player will paint a verbal picture of your life together right from the very first date, complete with romantic trysts and names for your kids. (Meanwhile, he’s checking out the waitress.) Before you swoon, ignore the smooth talk and notice whether his behavior — from showing up on time to calling when he says he will — is saying you’re The One, and not just one of many.

5. REALLY! Who is this guy???. After a few dates, ask yourself: Have I hung out with his friends? Do I know anything about him besides his last name? Do I even know his last name? If he’s not bringing you into his world, it’s not because he’s shy. It’s because he might be a player.