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Sometimes in life we allow our inner thoughts to escape and effect the way we behave.  Guess what guys…Stop it. I’ve usually directed this advice to the females, however, its just as applicable to all my brothers out there.

Yes, women can be golddiggers.  Yes, women can be evil. Yes, you’ve been hurt and it shouldn’t of happened.  However! Dont ever let your Cynicism compromise your Civility. Always…be a gentlemen.  Go ahead and Cuss and yell in private, but when you re in a social setting or with her, always present the picture of a cool, calm and collected individual.  There’s nothing sexier to a woman than composure.

Terrorist Cells pay attention, I gotta a REAL ’sleeper’ for you.  With a 40% alcohol content comparable to popular brands such a Grey Goose, it excels due to his smooth “non-burning” drinkability.  It also has a lower price point then its counterparts.  They left the bottle simple and focused on the contents.  Substance over style.  Ladies and Gentlemen, straight from Poland, I present to you….ZUBROWKA!

The absolute worst thing you can do with a female prospect is bring up sex.  Never, EVER directly address the idea of you and her getting intimate.  It should always ‘just happen’.  Pre-planning or seeking some sort of inclination of whats going to go down will absolutely destroy any chance of you ‘hittin it’.  Just focus on creating sexual energy through body language and inferences.

Tease her and gently elude to it in face to face situations when attempting to amplify things.  Do not do this over the phone. You’re goal is to get her to wonder if she turns you on.  Once this happens…sit back and enjoy the show.  Goodluck and enjoy brothers.

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For all intents and purposes Forrest Gump lived an exemplary life…Almost everything he touched turned to gold… All for one thing, his relationship with Jenny. Despite his accomplishments Jenny couldn’t see past his obvious handicaps.

As negative as it sounds, the heartache Forrest felt would have been avoided if he was a little more self-centered.  He should of went ahead and sealed the deal on New Years Eve even though she “tasted like cigarettes”… he should of embraced ANYTHING to distract his thoughts away from Jenny.  Sometimes in life, you’re gonna love someone who simply can’t love you back the same way.  Begging, pleading and rationalizing will only make it worse. So for all those guys out there wondering why she ain’t calling you back. GIVE IT UP.  Get out there and find yourself an ashtray to kiss… cuz when it comes to relationships, nice guys always finish last.

P.S. We all know the real problem was with Jenny.  That means YOU have to adjust because all the Jennys of the world wont.

Cool or Tool?

Whats your opinion?

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I love underdogs!  I ‘ve made a living rooting and supporting them, so its only fitting that I bid the Detroit Lions goodluck.  They go .500 this year. Draft well guys, get Matthew Stafford and end the curse of Bobby Lane for goddsakes!!

The helmet logo soo wrong…lol.

So you’ve absorbed all the books and info that exists out there in the world of seduction.  However…you’re still experiencing the same frustrations as before.

Perhaps is not what you know…perhaps it has something to do with how you present what you know.  In many situations, guys can appear as if they are reading from a teleprompter when seducing a woman.  This makes it impossible to smoothly create an emotional response and subsequent attraction.  Woman are not attracted to robots.  Make it a point to consciously practice effective vocal delivery in every situation.

Here are some tell tale signs that you need help with your delivery;

A) Anxiety & Nervousness

B) Your Mind Blanks

C) Your not sure what to say next

D) You begin to second guess the effectiveness of your own communication

E) Sweating and Discomfort

F) Her attentiveness begins to diminish and she starts looking around

G) The whole thing just feels forced

Women are extremely intuitive and can read you better than you think. It has to be the single biggest obstacle men have to overcome when running game in the field.  These chicks are breaking you down from the time you walk in the front door.

Guys need to get to where they can deliver their routines with smooth un-hesitant confidence and strive to leave the impression of a ‘Cool Breeze’.  In most situations, if mastered - one can afford to make theoretical mistakes during the pick-up and get away with it simply because your delivery and frame are so smooth.  Essentially, you are so ‘cool’ that recipient of conversation would rather question themselves as opposed to question you.

How do you get to this point? Practice,practice, practice…. Start conversations that are free of goals with people simply to work on your skills.

Guys….

Let me start of my stating my position very clearly.  I have absolutely no intention of humiliating anybody via this website.  It would absolutely counter-intuitive to what I’m trying to accomplish.  I am dedicated to helping you!  Please believe me.  If you want discretion with regards to a certain personal issue I will not post about it.  You can scour the site for evidence that says otherwise….

Now, with that out of the way…I encourage all those who are frustrated and without answers to contact me.  I AM and have always been a sympathetic ear to all those in need.  Feel free to “blow off some steam” when you feel the dating “Matrix” has got you down.

I’ve gotta admit it.  I’m extremely excited about this movie. (The Game)  The producers of this project couldn’t have picked a more suitable individual in Russell Brand to play the notorious ‘Mystery’.  Both individuals are equally audacious in their physical presentation and command the attention of all in their presence.  Their mastery of the english language and execution of brilliant extroverted mannerisms have propelled them to cult-god statuses.

The truth is I don’t think Brand needs to emulate Mystery in this role, he just needs to be himself.  By embracing his proclivity to be a narcissistic, peacocking psychological manipulating savant he should have no trouble hammering the role home.  Dude, I truly believe these guys have similar descendants.  GQ recently did a expose on Brand that accurately captured his essence;

“……Oh my god, you’re so beautiful, how can you NOT come with me now, it’s going to be brilliant.  Why would you not? What you doing? What’s on the telly? What are you going to do instead?…….The thing I’m offering I can deliver….Escape from Mundanity!”

If you thought the book “The Game: Penetrating the Inner Society of Pickup Artists” was big.  Wait until the release this movie.  It should make the community mainstream…the question is if that’s a good thing, or a bad thing….