Coping with Rejection: External Analysis

When you become better at approaching woman, you will see conventional ‘rejections’ get replaced by a more passive lack of interest on the woman’s behalf.

What this simply means is that woman will sub-communicate their lack of interest and you’ll be able to pick up on that sub-communication without having to have her spell it out for you. So… you’ll never actually face rejection.  You will have the ability to pull the plug on the whole interaction before she gets a chance to.

An easy example of this is the ‘Hello’ approach.  Walking up to a female and simply greeting her with a ‘Hello’ can tell you how the interaction is going to play out.  The key is you have to pay particular attention to her sub-communication.

Avoid making these classic mistakes and avoid outright rejection!

Here’s a couple:

1. Simply not paying attention to the situation, thus causing you to do something stupid.

You may think it’s cool to walk up to a woman and drape your arm around her and say, “Hey gorgeous, lets see if there’s more than meets they eye”…… while she’s on the phone.

Or follow a woman around all night, leering at her constantly, then deciding to muster up the courage to approach her…while she’s dancing with another guy.

I got news for you buddy, you deserve to be rejected.

2.  Not knowing when to quit.

Compliment her once.  Period.  Each compliment you give her you lower your own value.  Thus making it easier for her to reject you.  Work at establishing equality, not her superiority.

3. Making a woman question you because of your body language.

If you look like shit and act in congruence with your appearance.  REJECTION.

4. Failing to understand a woman’s body language and sub-communication.

When talking to a woman you will know if she’s receptive to talking to you.  Look out for negative body language.  If you don’t know what that is… you’ve gotta a LOT to work to do.  Fret not, I will be blogging about various examples of negative body language soon.

Minimize your mistakes and you’ll reduce you’re rates of failure.