Counter Intelligence: What the ‘Targets’ are learning boys…

The movement to educate men in how they approach women has been met with mixed reviews.  From men, positive and grateful.  From women, a negative adversity. Why? Because they feel that their being manipulated by us.  This is the furthest thing from the truth in my estimation.  Nonetheless, women have decided to become proactive in educating themselves in spotting guys who are less than sincere. Here’s a list of some of the things they’re considering when getting picked-up.  Be aware!

5 Quick Tips for Spotting a Player!

1.”Who was that guy? Oh my God, did he just give me “The Look?” He approached with zero hesitation? How the fuck did he make ME feel self-concious?” Hold on a second! Is he a player?

2. Research him. Even the smoothest players have a rep. Which is why most of you who date them already know the score deep down. You’re either in denial or think that you’re going to change him. You’re not!

3. Review his ‘Non’- approach. A real player won’t come on to you in a direct way. Instead he’ll chat up your friend and wait for you to make a move. Why? He wants you to feel like you are choosing him. Beware, he’s counting on your being competitive.

4. Actions Speak Louder than Words. A player will paint a verbal picture of your life together right from the very first date, complete with romantic trysts and names for your kids. (Meanwhile, he’s checking out the waitress.) Before you swoon, ignore the smooth talk and notice whether his behavior — from showing up on time to calling when he says he will — is saying you’re The One, and not just one of many.

5. REALLY! Who is this guy???. After a few dates, ask yourself: Have I hung out with his friends? Do I know anything about him besides his last name? Do I even know his last name? If he’s not bringing you into his world, it’s not because he’s shy. It’s because he might be a player.