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Usher in a New Way of Thinking…

Women are NOT attracted to WEAK men and this not in reference to physical ability.

Here are a few examples of how we guys act HUMDRUM pathetically giving away their power and chance of success with women.

1) Calling Her Way Too Often

If you like someone, you may think it’s a good idea to let them know as often as possible. Wrong.

Calling someone all the time usually denotes a level of insecurity and neediness.

This is the perfect way to scare off a chick before you
even get with her.

2) Offer To Take Her Somewhere “Nice”

What do most guys offer up when they meet a Hot Chick?

After boring her to death with inane conversation about their jobs, past educational experiences and how their family behaved last weekend. They finally work up enough courage to ask her to go to a really “nice” place. Reverse roles for a second and imagine being in this situation with a girl that’s not that attractive. Doesn’t it sound like she’s trying to bribe you with food? Hot Chicks don’t react well to bribery.

When asking a girl out, make it seem like you were going to that venue with her or without her. You almost want to make it seem like it may even be an inconvenience to bring her along. Take this approach and guess who doesn’t appear so needy all of a sudden.

3) Do “Thoughtful” Things From The Beginning

If you come into the situation on your knees, you appear just like every other predictable loser who has ever
tried to make himself look better by giving gifts
food, or favors in exchange for attention and
approval. She is NOT Cleopatra!

4) Tell Her How You “Feel” About Her Early On

I think every man was born with a trigger in our mouths that prompts us to spew vitriol that lessens are chances with a chick once we start developing feelings for her.

The “Emotional Confessor” trigger is activated by strong feelings of attraction and emotion towards a woman that we can’t believe is giving us the time of day

After surveying a bevy of attractive women I realized that they all have one similar experience to
share… men just seem to love telling hot women how they feel within the first couple of dates. Nerdy and loser behaviour.

5) Continuing to Tell Her How You Feel When She Needs Space

Scenario:

You’ve meet a chick you really dig.

You do all the things necessary to decrease attraction and you prove to her that you have no clue when it comes to women.

So she decides to pull away and distance herself from you. And what do most guys do? They continue to tell her how they feel.

The thought that most guys have is, “If she
only understood how I really felt about her, then she would finally fall in love with me.”

Men, stop having emotional responses to situations.  It fucks up our thinking process and makes us do all the wrong things.

Stop Sabotaging yourself.

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  1. hayden said on February 11th, 2010 at 3:43 am

    If you have a gf I feel very sorry for her, get some morals….

  2. alexander said on February 25th, 2010 at 5:17 pm

    great post. i truly appreciate
    alex

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